Ukupeyinta kunokuzisa ntoni ebantwaneni?
1.Phucula isakhono sokukhumbula
Mhlawumbi ukubona umzobo womntwana kungekho "ingqondo yobugcisa" nonke, ukusabela kokuqala kwabantu abadala "yigraffiti", eqondakalayo.Ukuba umzobo womntwana uhambelana ngokupheleleyo nembono yobuhle yabantu abadala, ngoko ayikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi "ingcamango".
Abantwana bakhangele iinkumbulo ezigcinwe ezingqondweni zabo xa beziva izinto zangaphandle, baze baziveze ngokucacileyo ngendlela "yobuntwana" kunye "naive".Abanye izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ubuchule babantwana buphezulu kakhulu ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-5, phantse ilingana inkosi yokupeyinta.Umxholo wemizobo yabo awukho nto, kodwa uhlobo lokubuyisela imemori yenyani, kodwa indlela yokubonakalisa ayikho indlela esisetyenziselwa ukwamkela njengabantu abadala.
2.Ukuphuculwa kwezakhono zokujonga
Ungambethi ngamehlo anokungathembi xa umntwana wakho ekhomba “into engaqhelekanga” kumzobo wakhe kwaye esithi intle kakhulu ~, ayinakoyiswa loo nto ~.Nangona umfanekiso isiphithiphithi kancinane kwaye imilo isuntswana ecaphukisayo, ngaba ukhe wafumanisa ukuba hlobo luni lweendima okanye isimo sengqondo ezi zinto sihlala sizikhaba kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla zibonakala kwihlabathi alibonayo?
Enyanisweni, oku kukusebenza kwesakhono sabantwana sokujonga.Ukungathintelwa ngamaphetheni amiselweyo, banokunikela ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha ezininzi abantu abadala abangakwazi ukuzibona.Ilizwe labo langaphakathi ngamanye amaxesha libuthathaka kwaye libuthathaka kunabantu abadala.
3.Ukuphuculwa kwentelekelelo
Kutheni sisoloko sinobunzima ekuqondeni ukuba abantwana bazoba ntoni? Kuba sohlukile kwintelekelelo yabantwana kunye nobuchule bokuqonda.Abantu abadala bathanda imithetho, into yokwenyani, kunye nehlabathi labantwana lizele ngamabali asentsomini.
Ngexesha elifanayo, ukusetyenziswa kwemibala kunokubonisa ngcono ukucinga kwabantwana ngesibindi.Bapenda imibala ngokuthanda kwabo ngokweminqweno yabo kunye neminqweno ... Kodwa musa ukusebenzisa "ukucaphukisa" ukuqonda ihlabathi elibonayo, kuba emehlweni abo, ihlabathi lalinemibala ekuqaleni.
4.Ukukhululwa kweemvakalelo ngexesha
Uninzi lweengcali zengqondo ngamanye amaxesha zicela isigulana ukuba sizobe umfanekiso ngaphambi kokunyanga isigulane.Kukho le nto kwisayikholoji yabantwana.Ngokuhlalutya imizobo yabantwana, izizathu ezisisiseko zeemvakalelo zabantwana kunye nezifo zengqondo zinokufumaneka.
Abantwana banobumsulwa bemvelo kunye nomnqweno onamandla wokuvakalisa, kwaye uvuyo lwabo, usizi kunye novuyo lwabo lucacile ephepheni.Xa bengakwazi ukuvakalisa ihlabathi labo langaphakathi ngolwimi olutyebileyo, indlela yokudibanisa-izandla zobuchopho-ipeyinti yavela.Ngamanye amazwi, umzobo ngamnye ubonisa iingcamango zokwenene zangaphakathi zomntwana kunye nembonakaliso yangaphandle yeemvakalelo zomntwana.
Ixesha lokuposa: May-19-2022